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In this third book of the BDSM Relationships series, Peter Masters looks at many of the common pitfalls and obstacles which can get in the way of a satisfying BDSM-based relationship. It's rare that a deficiency in practical BDSM skills, such as flogging technique or ability to tie knots, causes a relationship to fail. Instead they mostly fail due to people problems. These can be misconceptions, assumptions, unreasonable or wrong expectations, poor communication, not appreciating the wants and needs you have yourself and the wants and needs your partner has, not understanding the depth of feelings involved, lack of openness, and sometimes simply poor planning. Often these have a dramatic impact on disparity of power, penetration and engagement. Another of the major problems which BDSM folk have in establishing a BDSM-based relationship with a partner is that there are few role models around. Our society provides ample examples of ordinary non-BDSM relationships, but many of the challenges in a BDSM relationship are unique to BDSM. This means that many newcomers to BDSM, and sometimes even old hands, find themselves in situations for which they aren't prepared and in which there may not be any obvious paths to take to get out. While a non-BDSM relationship may survive failing trust or poor communication, BDSM relationships are often much more affected because of the intimate and very personal nature of much of which BDSM activities involve. The focus of this book is these sorts of problems which are specific to BDSM relationships, and the sorts of problems which may also impact ordinary relationships but which can have their own twist in BDSM. The book attempts to illuminate the road ahead, signpost the potholes and pitfalls, and provide helpful detours around common and not-so-common obstacles.

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In this second book of the BDSM Relationships series, Peter Masters takes as a starting point the principles and psychology of BDSM which he talked about in book one, and then places them in practical contexts, looking at how real-life BDSM activities and relationships serve to satisfy the wants and needs of practitioners. In particular, he takes the three BDSM pillars described in book one, looks at the effects that different BDSM activities and relationship types have on these, and shows the effects on both the wants and needs met by BDSM, and on the BDSM relationships themselves. Fundamental to this is, on the one hand, the role which the relationship has in allowing engaging and satisfying BDSM activities to be pursued and, on the other hand, the role which BDSM itself has in supporting and consolidating the relationship. Importantly, a longer-term relationship founded on trust and familiarity often forms a context in which much more profound experiences can be had than those you can find in a casual encounter. For this reason alone, recognising the nature of BDSM relationships and the practical possibilities which a relationship creates is vital to many people, otherwise they simply wouldn't be able to find the intensity they need. Trust, honesty, openness and effective communication play a critical part in creating the structurally sound foundation on which any BDSM relationship is built. Typically, all of these have a greater impact on a BDSM relationship than on a non-BDSM relationship and affect the profound intimacy and engagement which BDSM folk often look for. Shortcomings in any of these dramatically reduce the level of engagement possible and, consequently, how satisfying the relationship can be. The physical nature of a relationship is also going to be significant factor. Do you live with your BDSM partner? Are you only into weekend-only BDSM, or do you want it to be more pervasive in your life? Are you looking for a slave or are you wanting to be a S.

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This book brings together in one volume Peter Masters' BDSM Relationship series: Understanding BDSM Relationships, BDSM Relationships - How They Work, and BDSM Relationship - Pitfalls and Obstacles. The first book, Understanding BDSM Relationships, looks at the principles and psychology which underlie BDSM itself and, more importantly, which underlie the relationships between people who practice BDSM. He defines tools which can be used to recognise, understand, analyse, and diagnose what's happening and what's not happening in BDSM relationships. The second book, BDSM Relationships - How They Work, builds on the principles and psychology presented in the first book and looks at how these play out in real life to create satisfying and rewarding BDSM relationships. He explores a wide range of motivations and reasons why people get involved in BDSM and why they look for BDSM relationships, and he discusses a very wide range of BDSM activities-common and uncommon-and how they contribute both to the BDSM relationships themselves and to satisfying the wants and needs within those relationships. The third and final book, BDSM Relationship - Pitfalls and Obstacles, looks at what can and does go wrong in new, evolving, and existing BDSM relationships. He describes many problems specific to either BDSM or to BDSM relationships, their causes and, where possible, their cures.

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BDSM-Relationships-Books-1-2-and-3~~Peter-Masters, BDSM Relationships - Books 1, 2, And 3, Paperback.

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BDSM-Relationships-How-They-Work~~Peter-Masters, BDSM Relationships - How They Work, Paperback.

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BDSM-Relationships-Pitfalls-and-Obstacles~~Peter-Masters, BDSM Relationships - Pitfalls and Obstacles, Paperback.